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We are a queer-centered educational and community building space for sex-positive adult education, including relationships, dating, BDSM, kinky, polyamory and more. Posts mostly written by Mir (that dude in the chair) on behalf of the Wicked Grounds team. Welcome aboard!

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Wicked Grounds Events Roster (last updated 2/2)

Check out our latest classes & events below – including individual classes, daylong and multi-week intensives, and more! The new roster includes all our upcoming live classes in Los Angeles 3/20 - 3/22! Love us? Make a monthly membership contribution. (VIPs get great benefits, discounts, and some free classes!) Or, make a contribution to our scholarship fund to pay it forward to other kinksters! Need personal coaching & guidance for questions around sex, kink, and relationships? Reach out for...

Howdy kinksters - I hope you’re being gentle with yourselves and one another this week. I continue to believe that honoring our erotic selves and building resilient communities is critical. We’re going to keep making lots of space for that. I’m particularly happy this week to announce that we’re launching our first weekend of live programming in Los Angeles in late March! We’ll start with a third Friday Play Lab, and then I’m hosting two short classes and one daylong intensive over the...

Howdy kinksters - I hope you’re doing well this week. Several times this week I’ve seen kinksters come together in San Francisco or online and I am encouraged by the many ways I see folks building community right now. We have some great classes coming up for you this year: whether you’re in the San Francisco Bay Area, online, or now in other parts of the western US! If you are in Los Angeles, mark your calendars: Wicked Grounds is launching our first in what will be a regular series of LA...

Check out our latest classes & events below – including individual classes, daylong and multi-week intensives, and more! Love us? Make a monthly membership contribution. (VIPs get great benefits, discounts, and some free classes!) Need personal coaching & guidance for questions around sex, kink, and relationships? Reach out for one-time or ongoing coaching sessions at WickedGroundsAnnex.com. Not sure if coaching is the right fit for you? We offer 10-15 minute exploration sessions to learn...

Howdy kinksters - Dan Savage is not a perfect commentator, but he had one of the best descriptions of keeping balance in challenging political times that I’ve ever read. He said: “During the darkest days of the AIDS crisis, we buried our friends in the morning, we protested in the afternoon, and we danced all night. The dance kept us in the fight because it was the dance we were fighting for. It didn’t look like we were going to win then and we did. It doesn’t feel like we’re going to win now...

Howdy kinksters - I hope that this week is finding you as much as possible in your full power: resilient, fierce, and fully here for yourself and those you love. I have a firmly held life-long belief that being true to our creative and erotic selves brings power and presence to everything we do, and I’m committed to keep showing up for the ways that Wicked Grounds and I can help in your own erotic and creative journeys. We have a large and growing calendar of events. I’ll get out a new full...

Howdy all - A very happy new year from your friends at Wicked Grounds! We hope that whatever your journey looks like this year, we can be of service in helping you find the next steps on your own erotic roadmap. I firmly believe that kink and erotic pleasure are two parts of being fully ourselves. These can be part of a larger path of self-awareness and presence. Kink isn't separate from the rest of our lives! A strong erotic presence can fuel our creativity, passions, and relationships. It's...

Howdy kinksters - A very happy new year to you all! We are headed into the first weekend of the year, and will be running our typical first-weekend live programming in San Francisco. I hope to see some of you there! And of course we’ll have a wide variety of classes online as well. I just did a count, and we have thirty-five total events for January 2026. Wow! Our Boxing Day Sale continues through tomorrow. Now through the end of day January 1st, you can take 20% of anything at all from...

Boxing Day Sale! Yep, it’s the annual Wicked Grounds Boxing Day Sale! Get some of our best deals on everything from digital downloads to coaching. Who: Your evolving erotic & kinky self Where: Wicked Grounds Annex How: Use code BOXING_2025 at checkout between now and midnight January 1st Why: Invest in your kink journey at a significant savings over our regular prices What: So! Many! Things! Here are some examples: Digital Downloads Aftercare Kit Checklist. Kink Self-Discovery Workbook Your...

Hello and Happy All The Things! We hope that you are staying merry, warm, and festive this week! Here on the very rainy Mendocino county coast we’ve lost power but not our sense of humor! I am grateful to have a robust solar generator hooked up to keep the newsletter flowing this week. Below you’ll see our classes for the end of this year and the first few days of the brand new year! I’m also happy to tell you that we’ll be running our annual Boxing Day Sale this year. Now through the end of...