This Week at Wicked Grounds (6/26 - 7/6)


Hello kinksters -

I had a strange and interesting experience last week, tabling for Wicked Grounds at the first ever Mendocino County Pride in coastal Fort Bragg, California.

The parade and festival was lovely, with a huge turnout (hundreds of people in a fairly small town), great music, heartfelt speeches, and so much resilience. I tabled among a mostly vanilla crowd, and allowed the folks who recognized our Leather Pride Flag branding to come to me. More than two-dozen times over the course of the afternoon, someone would come up and – usually pretty quietly – say, “I thought I was the only kinky person in Mendocino county.” After a little bit, it broke my heart. I’ll be writing more about this for my own newsletter on Substack soon.

That’s the value of Pride. Many of you know that I grew up queer and poly (and down-low kinky) in rural Arizona during the Reagan/ Bush years. The choice to be closeted, or not, was very real and consequential. I was truly terrified to go to my first ever Pride in Phoenix.

Being “out” is a privilege, and not all of us can do it. Right now, Wicked Grounds will keep making safe spaces for kinksters wherever we can. Perhaps one of the best things about being largely online these days is that we can reach folks almost anywhere.

If you’re in San Francisco this weekend, please come say howdy at our booth! We’ll be in the Root of Pride adults-only area run by Folsom Street Events, which will also have its own performance stages with performance from Twisted Windows, PlayXLand, and more!


This Week!

Thursday, June 26 through Sunday, July 6

New events passes have dropped!

Our monthly, quarterly, and annual events passes have been updated to include the codes starting in July 2025. Yay! If you’d like to go to a LOT of kink events for a low price (and get a 20%+ discount on all intensives), check out the new passes here:

July 2025

July - September 2025

July 2025 - June 2026

Thursday, June 26

New-ish to rope? Want to build up your rope repertoire? Join Psychokitty Ryan tonight to learn some new floorwork ties in Getting Started with Rope Bondage: More Ties!. This class is live-only in San Francisco, CA. Advanced ticketing strongly recommended, as this class often sells out! Get your advanced tickets through Forbidden Tickets or Plura.

Friday, June 27

It’s Pride weekend!!! We don’t have anything planned tonight as an organization. You’ll probably see our staff out there having some fun!

Saturday, June 28 and Sunday, June 29

If you’re at SF Pride, come say hi! We’ll be in the Root of Pride 18+ area run by our friends at Folsom Street Events.

Monday, June 30 and Tuesday, July 1

Oh, gosh, no. We’re probably treating our sunburns today!

But you can always check out our video classes and other digital downloads at WickedGroundsAnnex.Teachable.com

Wednesday, July 2

Join us in San Francisco for Wicked Grounds Presents: SpankLab! with impossiblepain. This hands-on learn-by-doing impact play lab is a place to take your impact play skills to the next level, whether you’re brand new or an experienced player. (We have regular attendees who have been coming for almost four years now!) This event almost always sells out, so we recommend advanced ticketing through Forbidden Tickets or Plura.

Not in SF? We’ve got you with an online impact play class tomorrow!

Thursday, July 3

Join us online at 6pm Pacific/ 9pm Eastern for Impact Play 101: A Blind Top’s Perspective with Mistress Jaiyde. In addition to learning all the basics of impact play, you’ll get a grounding in somatic and other sensory clues to stay connected with your partner throughout your play sessions. Advanced ticketing required, whether to attend live or via the recording later. Get yours through Forbidden Tickets or Plura.

Friday, July 4 - Sunday July 6

We’re taking the holiday weekend off, but we’ll see you next week for plenty more classes!

If you’re hankering for something to do right now you can always check out our video classes and other digital downloads at WickedGroundsAnnex.Teachable.com


Upcoming Intensives!

We offer several intensives throughout the year, both in person and online. Here are a few that have just been opened for registration that you might want to check out.


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Mir & The Wicked Grounds Team


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