The Dom/ sub Dynamics Virtual Summit A free (or upgraded) Virtual Summit from Dom/sub Dynamics A virtual ticket with free live-only access or a small upgrade gets you unlimited access March 31 - April 3, 2025 Get your tickets here! The Dom/ sub Dynamics Virtual Event is back this year, and we’re very excited about this. Imagine your favorite kink conference. Now imagine all of that education and community building available to you right from the comfort of your home with worldwide and...
3 days ago • 1 min read
Howdy kinksters! First things first: if you love everything we do, I need to personally ask you to be a part of it. Sex education is already starting to face backlash in this country, and we need all our resilience to fight the fuck back. Your memberships allow us to make time for class development as well as to offer sliding scale and scholarship seats for our all programming. If you value what we do, please make a monthly membership contribution. (VIPs get some particularly sweet benefits,...
6 days ago • 5 min read
Howdy kinksters - Last night in San Francisco, I saw a group of brave kinksters come out to meet one another. Our Kinky Speed Friending host has a little ritual at the beginning of the event, slowly encouraging attendees to be willing to say – some for the first time – “I am a proud pervert.” We talk a lot about pride in queer and kink communities. I think pride is extremely powerful. When we are truly centered in who we are, what we want, and the spaces we want to create for ourselves and...
7 days ago • 5 min read
. . . but who knows? Maybe you're ready to do something slightly insane with me. For the past two years, I've dedicated myself to providing comprehensive personal development education for kinksters. I'm passionate about offering guidance that spans from foundational concepts for beginners to advanced, in-depth programs for experienced practitioners and fellow instructors. Through individual coaching sessions, I've helped kinksters address core questions about their personal growth. We've...
11 days ago • 1 min read
Howdy kinksters - It’s Women’s History Month, and I’m taking a moment to think about some of my idols who inspired me to explore sex-positive thought. It’s intimidating to make a list because there are so many who are so important to me, and I’m positive I’ll leave someone off. (Eeek!) But I’ll do my best, and perhaps there are a few on my list that you’d like to explore as well: Carol Queen, staff sexologist for Good Vibrations and the founder of the Center for Sex and Culture. Joani Blank,...
13 days ago • 4 min read
Hello kinksters - I hope that you are doing your best to take care of yourself and your loved ones in these very weird times. I am personally so grateful for the opportunities to connect with others right now, and so I’m very excited for several events coming up live and in person starting next week. Here are some events to look forward to in the coming week: This week! Friday 2/28 No live classes today, but check out our digital download classes on WickedGroundsAnnex.com! Saturday 3/1...
20 days ago • 2 min read
Some days I'm okay. Some days I want to hide under the bed. Many days, I use snark and gallows humor as a kind of lifeline. Spotify gave your Gen X kink educator a musical lifeline today, so I want to share it with you. You can pull up Le Tigre's "Keep On Livin'" here. You don't have to put it on auto-repeat as I'm doing today, but I won't stop you. If you don't know Le Tigre, they were a queer punk band from the Riot Grrl movement of the late 90s and early aughts. In other words, you want to...
26 days ago • 1 min read
Hello kinksters - What are you doing to take care of yourself this week? The deep work of our sex magick intensive and juicy conversations with our coaching clients have given me a lot of hope as I’ve navigated the last few weeks. I’m so grateful to every single person reading this for giving Wicked Grounds the opportunity to keep exploring the intersection of kink and self-knowledge. We are in genuinely weird times. I’m looking forward to the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom annual...
27 days ago • 2 min read
Hello kinksters - A few things hearten me in these weird times. This week, we had a full seating at our monthly Kinky Speed Friending, and I had the privilege of helping people connect alongside one of my favorite collaborators. I also had some very juicy conversations this week with Dustin of Dominance Dialogues, and you’ll hear everything we discussed in just a couple of weeks when that podcast goes live. This week, I encourage you to find a few things that energize you and then take that...
about 1 month ago • 3 min read