Hello kinksters - Happy nearly Halloween! Several of the events you’ll see this weekend are at Dark Odyssey: Surrender in San Jose! Registration for the conference is the only way to attend this weekend’s events Friday through Sunday, and registration is expected to close today (Wednesday, 10/22). If you’ve been waiting to get tickets, now is the time. Like, right now! Not at DO? Don’t worry! We have lots of online classes before and after the conference. Also, our yearly cohort of Diving...
7 days ago • 5 min read
The next cohort of Diving Deep is just a couple of weeks away! This work is perfect for anyone launching a new phase in their erotic journeys (or feeling stuck in an old phase). Is this course for you? Do you get stuck when asked "what do you want in intimate relationships?" Are you uncomfortable telling partners about your desires and kinks? Have you been doing the same thing for a long time and want to find new routes to eroticism? Do you want a deep understanding of the physical and...
9 days ago • 1 min read
Hello kinksters - We’re a flurry of activity right now, getting ready for next week’s Dark Odyssey: Surrender in San Jose and our yearly cohort of Diving Deep: Discovering & Voicing Your Erotic Desires, which launches in early November. If you’re headed to Dark Odyssey, you can now see all the events from our most active local instructors posted to our FetLife events for your perusal. As of right now, DO still has full registrations and day passes available, so that you can join us – but that...
13 days ago • 5 min read
Behold our latest full events roster! We update this a couple of times a month to showcase all the new events that are currently available for ticketing, and we add new events all the time, and we’ve added about a dozen since our most recent edition. Whew! As our events team keeps saying, November is STUFFED! Love us? Make a monthly membership contribution. (VIPs get great benefits, discounts, and some free classes!) Links below are to Forbidden Tickets. If you’re a Plura member, check the...
17 days ago • 5 min read
Hello kinksters - This autumn is stuffed with opportunities for kink education and connection! If you’re headed to Dark Odyssey: Surrender this month in San Jose, we’ll see you there! We are running several classes, rituals, and self-care events, so check the schedule for offerings from Miriam Green and impossiblepain, as well as our other regular educators like Lee Harrington, Alexandria from Click Your Heels, and Psychokitty Ryan. Our yearly cohort of Diving Deep: Discovering & Voicing Your...
20 days ago • 4 min read
Behold our latest full events roster! We update this a couple of times a month to showcase all the new events that are currently available for ticketing, and we add new events all the time. Love us? Make a monthly membership contribution. (VIPs get great benefits, discounts, and some free classes!) Links below are to Forbidden Tickets. If you’re a Plura member, check the Plura app for ticketing 2-4 weeks before each event. Need personal coaching & guidance for questions around sex, kink, and...
22 days ago • 4 min read
Diving Deep: Discovering & Voicing Your Erotic Desires with Miriam Green a six-week online intensive via Teachable and Zoom November 2 - December 13, 2025 Advance ticketing required. Get yours here! Please note: these workshops sell out in advance, and space is limited. To ensure your seat, please sign up as soon as you feel committed to this work. We typically close the four-session premium seating before general seating, so if you feel called to the advanced premium seating, you will want...
24 days ago • 1 min read
Hello kinksters - What a great time we had at Folsom Street Fair last weekend! Thanks so much for all the instructors, staff, volunteers, and awesome community members that made it possible – and congratulations to the kinksters and aspiring kinksters that won prizes with us! We are proud and humbled at your enthusiasm, your energy, your integrity, and your joyful willingness to step into all of who you are. Even in the week after Folsom – when I think many of us are running on fumes – my...
27 days ago • 3 min read
Diving Deep: Discovering & Voicing Your Erotic Desires with Miriam Green a six-week online intensive via Teachable and Zoom November 2 - December 13, 2025 Advance ticketing required. Get yours here! Please note: these workshops sell out in advance, and space is limited. To ensure your seat, please sign up as soon as you feel committed to this work. The first step in negotiating is voicing what we want. But many of us run into immediate challenges: What do I want? As I figure that out, how do...
about 1 month ago • 1 min read